Everyone is right from his or her own perspective.
When you belive that your troubles are the result of what someone else is doing to you, you are powerless to stop them. Your only recourses are to duck, endure, or get out of the way. However, taking responsibility for the conflict does not mean blaming yourself instead of blaming the other person. Such strategy can be just as counterproductive, sometimes even more so since it can involve a tendency toward self-pity and helplessness. At least when you are finding fault with others you are feeling feisty in the act of fighting back insted of withdrawing into a shell surrounded by the trophies of your failures.
Kottler.
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